People in our life come and go, everything has a time and a season. Sometimes there are times of parting as people go on to their next phase in life. In the past I have had good college friends move on in their life and we still connect or touch base every once and awhile but those relationships are changed, never what they were. Today, the person who I consider my best friend is moving far away. It is a good thing for him, time to move on, move ahead, and move forward. Now granted since we have both gotten married we have spent less and less time doing stuff together as we focus on life together, but we were always a phone call away and there was always time to get together as needed. Now he is moving to Oregon, a place a long, long way away. No more getting together to watch a football game or just hang out and talk, that time and season has come to a close. Yet, no matter what the distance he will always be like a brother to me which is interesting because my biological brother lives on the East coast, and he will live now out on the West coast.
The fact is relationships time, people serve their intent and purpose for a season. Some seasons are long, some short. Some relationships endure but change, others just end. There are many people who have come into my life and left that have no contact with, some cannot even recall their names to look up on Facebook or elsewhere if they were even there. However, that does not diminish at all the value of that relationship. Some people we let in to the deep stuff others just kept to surface, but the people we come across we touch and they touch us in some manner.
The thing is to be thankful and grateful for the people who come and go and what they give you and you give them. For each relationship is precious. For those that have been true friends in my life thank you for what you have given me and I have given to you. So today, a parting as my best friend leaves for Oregon. The question then becomes what is next as move ahead and what the next season brings. The important thing is to stay open and engaged and be willing to move beyond self and connect. For there are blessings for self and others in doing and where God’s love is demonstrated, others are drawn to Him.
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